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A word to the wise.

Sat Jun 6, 2009, 11:48 PM
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National Drawing Day was boring for me. :( I didn't get anything done. I guess for me it was National Take a Break from Drawing day.

Anyway, it's occurred to me that a lot of my friends hold their problems inside them until they can no longer keep them in, and it rushes out in a torrent of words that you don't mean to say.

This applies to me as well.

So today, how about we all embrace our problems and let them out the moment they arise? This advice applies to me, too.

If you have a problem with someone, something someone is doing, or something that someone has created, take it to them the moment you experience your feelings. Otherwise, it will stagnate, and undesirable, long-term effects will arise.

Don't take your problems to those who are not the source of them. You make assumptions, think too much, and come to conclusions that are, most of the time, untrue.

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:iconlil-n00dle:
Very sound and good advice Lauren. 83 And should be taken to heart and stored in one's mind for everyone occurence of anger, misinterpretation, and the like. Think before speaking. Think before acting. And acting before regretting. ... I guess? Lol.

But yeah.
LET IT OUT.
Makes sense.
I should probably do it with a certain occurrence that happened and.. well, it scared me shitless. To the point of crying and shaking. And I'm starting to bottle it up. >> fff

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"To be great . . . is to be misunderstood."
:iconhamstertastic:
That is extremely good advice. <3
It's something that I learned the hard way sadly. ewe
Bottling thing up is the worst thing a person can do to themselves. D|

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But I love my pure bottled rage :noes:
:icontemporary-glitch:
THAT'S TOO BAAAAD

GOSH!! D:<

:giggle:

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Human beings can always be relied on to assert, with vigor, their given right to be stupid.
:icontemporary-glitch:
Same here. I've been doing it over and over and I just need to will myself to stop :(

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Human beings can always be relied on to assert, with vigor, their given right to be stupid.
:icontemporary-glitch:
I'm guilty of all of those :( I used to be such an agreeable person and now I'm a giant bitch, and I'm starting to dislike it. :P

D:

DON'T BOTTLE IT UP JAYMEEEEEEE

PS when are you visiting again? :D

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Human beings can always be relied on to assert, with vigor, their given right to be stupid.
:iconhamstertastic:
I know how you feel. D: I do the same thing.
And I exploded like last weekend. It was bad. D:
It's best to do that though, cause it helps you realize. >:

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:iconlil-n00dle:
I've grown somewhat. I used to be a small kid bottling things up and keeping them to myself. But after 2nd grade, that shit went out the window. I'm overly honest and get slammed for it. So, gotta reel back a bit.

AND DON'T WORRY. I DIDN'T. I discussed it with the person and myself. We're all good. xD

And I'm coming July 17th through the 20th. >> Get in the night of the 17th and leave like.. early afternoon on the 20th. 8D

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:iconkinno-nabi:
True bottling things up is bad [and a bad habit of mine], but I know that if I take it to the source person I know the issue will only get worse. :c

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:iconmalevolent-lyset:
I always express myself to people. As a result I have very few (but VERY close) friends. I've been described as "alienating". So where its good to express yourself: be tactful about it. Don't be like me and state everything in such a raw, no mercy type manner. ;)

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